Relationships are an ongoing problem in the story, Keep is Movin. Since this story is so drama comprehensive, of course the main source is going to come from different people in the relationships. Jayd versus Rah is a problem that never quite gets addressed or resolves. Jayd and Rah originally found love in the middle school they both shared. As high school approached the best living situation option was for him to go live with his grandparents and Rah did as he was told with vengeance. He did not want to enter high school without his love, Jayd, but it wasn't the best idea for him to live in Compton anymore. As the two separated, the relationship dwindled but love still remained. Time went by as the two became so distant the relationship became too hard to handle. Phone calls went from every day and night after school to once a week and then eventually reaching once a month. After the breakup the two went their separate ways eventually finding new people. As their life went on Rah found a girl named Sandy and had a child with her, and Jayd found a boy named Jeremy. Jeremy was different that the norm that Jayd usually goes for because of his color. At first Jayd was surprised to find herself being with a white but after a few months it became normal to her. After finding out Rah was having a baby she was hurt because she loved him so much she would've had his baby if need be. But after a while Jayd understood that she must live her life in order to be happy. I can relate to this story because I went through something similar. During middle school I never went out with anyone but there was a girl at my school that I really liked. We would always see each other in school of course and even go to the movies SOMETIMES, but the most memorable part about this was that we would sneak and talk on the phone every night. The feelings were mutual in this situation, we both liked each other. As high school approached, there was a change. she was going to a different school than I but I didn't quite understand the severity of the situation until the first weeks of school. We went from best friends to barely friends all within the first week. I know we weren't in a relationship, it felt like one. In many cases distance helps the two involved in a relationship grow closer, but many times distance only breaks it up.
This video shows a couple who met on online and this is their first time meeting each other. This is an example of what I was talking about when I said distance brings some couples together.
What are some of your thoughts of long-distance relationships?
Friday, October 30, 2015
Tuesday, October 27, 2015
Keep It Movin'
Sixteen year old, Jayd Jackson; growing up in the poverty stricken hood of Compton California, learns that responsibility is a major factor in becoming an adult. Her hectic life is cluttered around drama, which smothers her more and more every day. Instead of living with her actual parents, Jayd lives with her grandmother(Mama/Lynn Mae) and 4 uncles, and her cousin Jay. As Jayd and Mama grow together they also grow many problems in the process. Going through past relationships, she realizes no one can give her love like her family. Even though her relationship with her mother and father may not have been so strong, she works through it and understands why her grandmother takes care of her, and loves then through it all. Working along the side of her Grandmother, they work hard doing hair. Although she is in school she makes money on the weekends but mostly in the summer when her time isn't limited and also does hair. While trying to focus on school, she going through so many reoccurring problems with friends and family. Tugging at each other, Jayd tries balancing her life but finds it very difficult. She is in a relationship with a boy named, Rah, who was her first love from middle school but is stuck in the middle of all his problems. Rah has a son he takes care and deals with his crazy baby-mama(Sandy) and ex-girlfriend(Trish) as the same time. Although she keeps trying to keep the relationship from turning into a failure, he past keeps popping up reentering her life. Jeremy, Jayd's ex, and Jayd agree to just being friends but its very difficult to just be friends when feelings are involved. In the story Jeremy says Jayd is "the type of girl wanted by a lot of guys," and that he is "jealous of Rah"(pg. 28, line 18-21),meaning he wants to be with Jayd but knows its going to be difficult since so many guys want her. The more Jayd hangs out with Jeremy, the more Rah starts hanging out with Sandy; thus causing an end to the petty relationship. After seeing how well Jayd does handling; her Advanced Placement classes, work, and drama, her father feels it is time for her to get some wheels(a car) some of her transportation problems to vanish. Jayd also gets hit with betrayal by old friends like Misty. As they were former best friends, that label gets changed to "frienemies."
This famous quote gets used by hundreds of thousands of people everyday. This quote just brings reality to the fact that everyone cannot be trusted and the people you call your friends, you have to watch them the most because they can and will do you the dirtiest. Misty, being and old friend of Jayd's, tries ruining her any chance she get such as spreading rumors both true and false around he school, yet always finding ways to call Jayd her friend. And Nellie through it all, is there for Jayd no matter what, that's a true friend. Jayd's grandmother tells her," you are blessed enough to be born in an active house and when you're alone and want to latch onto people, they latch back on to you,"(page 162) this gives evidence that she is well liked and people want to be around her.
The video is a scene from the "Perks of Being a Wallflower" and it reminded me of Jayd and Misty's relationship because Misty sometimes tries putting Jayd down in public but exposing her secrets to the general population at school!
This was an interesting story because although it was a fictional novel, it seemed very factual. The novel included many type of different drama that is also displayed here at our school. Things like pregnancies, relationships and house hold problems are very real and are displayed in the story too. There were many times in the story where I felt some type of connection, like when Jayd was talking to a peer about the things that happened with her boyfriend and that got passed around the school but was twisted and added to make more interesting, I thought of when that happened to me. And I thought of all the times I thought I was going to be able to trust a friend and got betrayed.
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This famous quote gets used by hundreds of thousands of people everyday. This quote just brings reality to the fact that everyone cannot be trusted and the people you call your friends, you have to watch them the most because they can and will do you the dirtiest. Misty, being and old friend of Jayd's, tries ruining her any chance she get such as spreading rumors both true and false around he school, yet always finding ways to call Jayd her friend. And Nellie through it all, is there for Jayd no matter what, that's a true friend. Jayd's grandmother tells her," you are blessed enough to be born in an active house and when you're alone and want to latch onto people, they latch back on to you,"(page 162) this gives evidence that she is well liked and people want to be around her.